Paul Petersen
remembers TV Mom, Donna Reed
Nick Thomas
While most of us will
be remembering our own mothers on May 8 this year, entertainers who worked as
child actors in television sitcoms may also have special memories of their ‘TV
mom.’ For Paul Petersen, that was Oscar winner Donna Reed, matriarch from “The
Donna Reed Show.”
In 2018 for the
anniversary of the show’s first broadcast, Petersen (and coauthor Deborah
Herman) released “The Donna Reed Show: A Pictorial Memoir.
In 2018 for the
anniversary of the show’s first broadcast, Petersen (and coauthor Deborah
Herman) released “The Donna Reed Show: A Pictorial Memoir” (see
www.micropublishingmedia.com).
“It’s kind of an
archival look back at an iconic television show,” said Petersen who, like Reed,
appeared in all 275 episodes during the series run from 1958 to 1966. “I wanted the book to not only examine the
people who made the show, but to put television in the historical context of
the period. During the 8 years, we went through a lot including illnesses,
accidents, and national incidents from that era.”
One of the most
memorable was the 1963 Kennedy assassination.
“We were rehearsing
and a guy from the radio station across the street called with a real quiver in
his voice asking for Donna,” said Petersen who remembers answering the phone.
“Donna then told us the president had been shot and it shut down the studio. We
just packed up and went home for a very painful weekend.”
Most of Petersen’s
memories of the show are far more pleasant, however, like the first day filming
on the set.
“Donna was from a
little town in Iowa called Denison, in the county right next to where my mother
was born around the same year,” he explained. “When I got the job, the most
excited person in my family was my grandfather who insisted on taking me to
work to film the pilot. He marched right up to Donna and said, ‘Donna Belle
Mullenger (her birth name) I knew your dad!’”
Reed was gracious,
and remained personable and well-liked throughout the series, according to
Petersen. “We all got together for lunch and were very close – uniquely close
compared to other television families.”
A potentially
tragic incident occurred when Petersen crashed his Pontiac Grand Prix during
the series. But Donna came to his rescue.
“The accident was
my fault and for punishment I had to ride a bicycle 8 miles to work every day.
But Donna and Tony (her husband) felt sorry for me and gave me a brand-new
Volkswagen Bug. I loved that car!”
During the show’s
run, Petersen obviously called Reed ‘mom’ while filming, but it was always
‘Miss Reed’ away from the set.
“It wasn't until
four years after the show ended when I was in my mid-20s and we were at
Chasen’s restaurant that I remember her learning across the table and saying,
‘Paul, I think it's time you started calling me Donna!’”
Having a close
‘second mom,’ especially a famous one, could have created friction between
Petersen’s real mother and the actress. Petersen even remembers his mother once
asking “how could I ever compete with Donna Reed?”
“But she understood I had an ongoing professional relationship with Donna that sometimes required spending more time with her than my actual mother,” he said, referring to Reed as his “de facto mother and guardian on the set, and a pretty safe person to leave your kids with.
“She was an Iowa bred farm girl, the oldest of
five children, who had lived through the depression and came out to California
to be a Hollywood star and succeeded,” he added. “She was a wonderful role
model.”